I am moving, and can’t wait to have my own space. More independence:
One needs space to be who one is, feel oneself out and be in connection with oneself.
We have come to believe that love is giving this up; monogamy and marriage. You don't have to;
There are many ways of living life, just like there are many ways of arranging society/our human zoo beyond two political parties, and just like there are many ways to see everything; there's no real truth - only subjective realities, cultures, languages and circumstances.
Be you. Causality made you who you are, and it could have never been any different.
In a world of an endless chain reaction, and thus where everything has a cause, self- and other-compassion is the obviously appropriate attitude. If you know about it, that is ;-)